Tis happens last week.... I lazy to update my blog tat's y until now only i posted it...
Sigh...... Recently i just got scolding over and over again.......
FOR 1 STUPID REASON!!!
Which i even dunno i deserve the scoldings from them or not....
I'm Confused....
Who's right or wrong....
So i decided to post it on my blog to let u dear readers make a judgement over here...
I can just say they keep scolding over the same thing....
Even i'm bored with it....
Especially my mom....
Well, today she's the main character of tis whole movie la....
Started of by.... i dunno how.... (Either mayb my brother was playing computer but actually he shouldn't.... or he eat more than wat mom instructed him to eat)
So my mom start scolding...
Obviously... u can see from all the statements above...
Clearly shows tat my brother is in the wrong side right?... okay let's continue...
So i was taking a nap...
After i came back from my dental appointment....
I somehow ignore the scoldings....
But it getting worse....
Mom keep crapping about anything she can crap....
The worst part is...
Y only i'm the one involved with tis?....
She said i always let him play computer and stuffs...
Bla Bla Bla.... Old stories..... (basically if u read my previous post b4 u will know.... she actually scolding the same old thing again la....)
And suddenly my father came into the "lecture" session for me and my bro....
The thing is tat my brother is doing something wrong...
The arrows keep flying to me....
My dad scolding him half way....
He shouted my name like there's no tomorrow...
Then i replied...WAT? ME AGAIN??...
Dad shouting again"U ALWAYS LET HIM PLAY COMPUTER FOR WAT?!!!"
Then i defended myself...."Recently.... Since when u see me let him play my laptop?!!"
Then my dad said he gonna keep every single computer in tis house....
My dad first approaching to my sister's desktop which is the one my brother also secretly playing on and get caught....
And mom defended the desktop!!!
"NO!!!!.... not tis 1" she said...
"The sister always keep the password on... but then the brother anyhow still can play" She continued...
So u guys.... see?.... my sister is safe....
Only me.... Haha... Continue...
After my mom said tat..... my dad stopped moving the desktop which actually he had the intention to keep away the desktop edi...
Now.... Now.... Whose computer next.... Surely is mine la...
He came to me and said... "one more time i see u let him play on ur laptop... tat's it... no more laptop for u...."
And then he continue by scolding me... "u last time said u need tis laptop to study.... but then i always see u gaming until late at nite.... hey come on... u dunwan sleep.... ur brother still wanna sleep 1 u know?!!!"
Mom interrupted "dun u see??... after u bought the damn laptop for him... the brother no longer wake up early as last time?... cuz the brother la.... always allow him to play on his laptop.... "
Then dad continued "i never see u doing ur work on ur laptop wan lo.... i only see u gaming all the time.... u dunwan study but please dun bring ur brother along with u...."
I was angry edi.... i replied "after so long.... since when u see me playing game on laptop till late at nite summore?.... and who said i never do my assignments?.... izzit u wan me every nite go wake u up and tell u i'm doing my assignment?.... izzit?...."
Father replied " u expect me every nite come to ur room and check on u whether u'r playing game o not?!!!"
I replied "tat's y dun simply say i gaming la.... which i never do serious gaming for quite sometime edi.... i stopped long ago... "
Father replied "i saw u game b4 means now u also will game...."
Tis is the part i really wanna talk about and get really pissed over tis...
Cant a human change? ladies and gentlemen?.... Will we always be the same?....
We live a life which we doing stuffs over and over again?... Well, not everytime!....
Then father continue scolding "i always see u wake up damn late.... then when wake up u will go out until late at nite only come back.... u call tis study ar?"
I replied "today i woke up early wat!!"
Dad instantly replied " TODAY ONLY WAT!!! i say u wake up late le.... u will always say u wake up early today... then y u wake up early today u tell me... ?"
Mom interrupted "Har! u think ur son wake up early for something good ar?... Frens never call him out to yum cha he will wake up so early ar?...."
I shouted back to her "GO FIX MY BRACES LA!!!"
Tis is not the first time my mom actually did such things....
Whenever we get scolding from dad ar...
She will be standing right beside there.....
"Add gasoline into the fire"...
My dad scolded alot of things some more actually....
But i lazy to mention it here la....
He also said tat whenever he scold me... i dun wan to listen.... everytime show face....
He asked me izzit he dun have the right to scold me?....
Can.... i never say no.... but wat is the point of listening in such a situation...
Most of it is i getting the blames for no reason....?!
The story is long... and i dun wanna prolong it....
U will roughly get my idea and wat i wanna say over edi...
Wat to do?...
We cant get to choose our parents/family...
Bear with it... Survival skills is important....
Till then...
*Peace Out!!*
P/S: i would like to hear from everyone of u.... leave me a comment... telling me whether i deserve it all??... or everything is just my fault?... I dun mind ppl firing me.... i just wanna get ur point of view towards tis issue... wat do u think?..
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Tuesday, December 16, 2008
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For this, just keep your damn laptop secured in password, locked it on the hall instead of bedroom or an enclosed room. By lock, you know that special lock for laptop? That's the one, lock it on the public where your father can easily see.
Delete all the games in the laptop, do it smart.
Copy games from your friend so the games doesn't show up in the registry on the computer.
Use the hide icon command for the game folder duh!
If your brother still can game, tell your father that he actually broke your password and it's not your friggin fault anymore.
And you should straighten up your brother, telling him if he play your lappy for the 1 last time, you gonna whack him for good. If he got your lappy confiscated, you tell him gonna make meat pie out of him.
Don't blame your parents, they just see the smaller picture.
If your parents are those type to easily explode to anger, i guess that's your best bet, they won't ever ever see the bigger picture ever and no reasoning will reach them unless you are smarter than them, own good grades, and have something to make them shutup. In my case, my grades pretty good to keep them from saying anything =D.
This world is unfair so you see... only those with wealth, fame and power will prevail. Even in household nowadays, if the child is "stupid", he won't even be able to defend himself. How the heck will he wanna say if he get's an F for the subject? Nothing but take the rape from the no-brainer parents.
Not saying your parents are no brainer but seriously, ask them not to SHOUT in the first place.
That will make any human beings adrenaline to rush unless he's a POPE.
If it's not too hard, just change for 1 month, just stick to wad your father says for 1 friggin month, get good grades to shut them up. Not telling you not to play any games but duh.. do it smartly, i know you're smart ;)
-Unholy One (Always with you)
hey, chill man. parents are never reasonable, so have to bear with it for a few more years before breaking free from them.
maybe you can try taking to your brother? does he feel bad in making you go through all these just because of his own actions? hmm.
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